In the Boys’ Children Crisis Center of The Dream House Indonesia Foundation, a relaxed afternoon conversation was more than just a chat. This session continued our commitment to providing comprehensive and understandable sexual education for teenagers under our care. Using a casual dialogue method, our social worker, Raka Galih Sajiwo, engaged eight boys in discussing the importance of navigating relationships and understanding the effects of gadget use in their daily lives.
The activity was attended by IQ, YN, DI, TH, YI, DS, BG, and AF(names anonymized). Their enthusiasm was evident as they shared their views on actions that are “acceptable” and “not acceptable,” reflecting a growing understanding of these crucial topics.
Voices of Understanding: Learning from Each Other
What was remarkable about this session was the process of the boys actively articulating their comprehension. Here are some key points they raised:
Self-Respect and Respect for Others: Most boys agreed that sexual harassment is absolutely prohibited. They also showed awareness about the importance of not sharing inappropriate content and not touching others without consent.
Navigating Relationships Wisely: Some, like YN and TH, mentioned the importance of dating or having relationships “appropriately,” with mutual understanding and without causing hurt. YI added the prohibition of child marriage.
Vigilance in the Digital World: The threats from gadgets and the internet were keenly recognized. TH and YI highlighted the dangers of watching pornographic videos, sending explicit content carelessly, and accessing harmful sites and “gambling websites.” They also understood the need to consume content (like TikTok) within age-appropriate limits.
Positive Alternative Activities: Boys like DI recognized that engaging in positive activities like playing soccer can serve as a healthy distraction. Iqbal also connected personal strength and faith as a form of self-protection.
To ensure the message was conveyed clearly, the Social Worker used direct and easy-to-understand language. This approach proved effective in building concrete understanding. The hope is that this knowledge will be applied in their daily interactions and decisions.
Follow-Up Plan
Given the urgency of sexual education for teenagers in the digital age, The Dream House Indonesia Foundation is committed to continuing such interventions regularly. Sustainable education is key to nurturing teenagers who are not only protected but also grow with a sense of responsibility and respect for themselves and others.
We believe that with proper guidance, every child has the right to correct understanding about their bodies, relationships, and digital safety. This is part of our mission to build a healthier, more empowered generation.